I think it's the definition of ones' self by only a few words that excites me.
Growing up, my last name was always
Ahhhhh, here we add a whole new dimension to the picking of the name ~ proper balance with the last name, good flow from the middle name, all a game of sound produced by the coming together of letters and syllables. Some good examples of perfectly balanced names to me are names like Jonathan Taylor Thomas, Neil Patrick Harris, Lisa Marie Presley, Daniel Day Lewis ~ don't you just love how easily they each roll off the tongue?
But then comes nicknames. I have a love/hate relationship with nicknames but they are out there and cannot be ignored. Part of me longs for the traditional, true blue full name when another part of me likes the options and friendliness of their shortened versions. I myself go by a shortened version of my first name: Kate. I was thankful my parents chose a classic, easy to pronounce name for me and really haven't found it too much of a bother to write out Katherine for formal things and Kate for all else. Actually, there are many celebrities who go by completely different names than their birth names (I told you I know a lot about this subject!).
For example did you know....
- Reese Witherspoon was really named Laura Jeanne Reese Witherspoon
- Marilyn Monroe was really named Norma Jean Mortensen
- Tina Turner was really named Anna Mae Bullock
- Jack Black was really named Thomas Jacob Black
- Dakota Fanning was really named Hannah Fanning
- Portia De Rossi was really named Amanda Lee Rogers
- Miley Cyrus was really named Destiny Hope Cyrus
- Meg Ryan was really named Margaret Hyra
- Elton John was really named Reginald Kenneth Dwight
- Natalie Portman was really named Natalie Hershlag
- Brad Pitt was really named William Bradly Pitt
- Joaquin Phoenix was really named Joaquin Rafael Bottom
- Carmen Electra was really named Tara Leigh Patrick
- Vin Diesel was really named Mark Vincent
- Demi Moore was really named Demetria Gene Guynes
Those were my favorites, but you can check out more here.
There's also namesakes. My parents selected my middle name after my father's mother, Marie. Did you know that it's considered respectful for Catholics to name their first born daughter after some form of the name Mary after the Virgin Mary? We chose the first name Benjamin for our first born because we liked the traditional but friendly sound of it and the middle name of Leroy (which means King in French) after my husband's grandfather. I never had the opportunity to meet him, but always liked the way everyone always smiled as they spoke so highly of him. Our second son is named Grant, which means great and is exactly what we both thought when we heard our doctor announce "It's a boy!" His middle name of Thomas is one we've both always liked, and thought it complimented Grant well. Thomas is also a saint and an uncle of mine. It seems to be more and more popular now to hear of last names as first names (which I love) and think that incorporating family meaning can really add that timeless, solid touch.
Oh, and don't forget initials! Some people overlook what their child's name could spell out with their initials, or don't know how one's monogram features their last name in the middle, first name first, and middle name last. I really enjoyed reading jcrew's recent article about monograms.....
The monogram is an elegant way to make your mark. It’s your name boiled down to the essence, executed with graphic artistry. It’s as old as the coat of arms and it was used as a hallmark in metalwork, ceramics and graphics, marking the genuine article.
So, how does a name lover such as myself ever decide on what to name her own children? As my mother so simply once advised ~ "One should find a name that will suit them properly as a child as well as an adult." Well, after many, many conversations with my husband (I'm sure if you ask him he'll tell you how I've completely exhausted him on the subject!), research into our genealogy and name meanings, and practice name writing (oh yes, I do this often), you finally decide on a name that just feels right. And in my opinion, no one but the parents themselves can answer that best. What an honor!
If I've intrigued you enough by all of this, here are some links to my FAVORITE name sites....(WARNING: you may spend hours and hours of time...finding the perfect name can be addicting!).